Anonymous: How exactly does fifty shades reflect badly on the BDSM community?
I can’t believe people are still asking this.
- romanticization of a maniplulative abuser
- lack of and/or disposal of the importance of consent
- taking advantage of someone from a lower socioeconomic class
- perpetuating the risky behavior of novices hopping into D/s with no idea what it is, which ends up subjecting them to
- creepy abusive assholes who prey on naive subs who thing 50 shades represents BDSM (and who are prime victims because they wouldn’t know that they are being taken advantage of since force and possessiveness seem ‘romantic to them’
- People running out to get zip ties or rope and shit to tie themselves up with without actually reading up on bondage. Blood clots and injuries ensue, yay
- People putting themselves into emotionally intense scenes with no preparation and ending up frightened, confused and uncomfortable.
tl;dr, if you think 50 shades is a good representative of BDSM you are too unprepared and naive to get into BDSM.
Christ almighty the Fifty Shades of Grey movie looks bad
I mean it’s a fucking terrible book in the first place, it’s one of the few truly terribly books that really made me rage when I read from it
But seeing how grossly rapey the trailer was just makes me wanna throw up since now it’s actually fully visualized and I just
God I hope this disgusting shit doesn’t make money
Some people really seem to look hard for reasons to be upset.
I mean, why else would a person look for criticism for their favorite show to angrily and lengthily lash out with reasons why the critics are dumb and stupid and wrong?
Someone’s jimmies have definitely been rustled, and surprisingly, they’re not mine.
the worst thing about online friendships is no hugs
man i wanna hug the frick outta some of you
"I didn’t get over it, but I got used to it."
i don’t have any plain t-shirts and that’s no good when you need to go to a funeral in summer
i didn’t want to go to a funeral anytime soon and yet here i am
fuck fuck fuck fuck fuck
a guy i went to school with got killed in gaza
we were never friends but we were in the same class together for two years and we graduated together and now he’s dead
Maybe I’ll start a GoFundMe campaign to get out of here
At least to go on a vacation or something
Someplace Israeli planes go since they’re pretty much the only ones who haven’t bailed out
My mental health is deteriorating so fast I won’t be able to handle this fighting much longer
I don’t want to be brave anymore
I want to live
American and European aircraft carriers suspended their flights to Israel, which of course also puts a stop to a lot of flights from Israel
How the FUCK am I supposed to get out of this hellhole now